By invitation · Roseann’s A-List · Since 1994
The men worth your time are not where you've been looking.
Roseann has spent thirty years finding them for women like you.
You have success, beauty, and intellect. But you are tired of sifting through apps, unverifiable profiles, and men who are not ready. You have no shortage of men
who want to take you to dinner. What you have a shortage of is men worth going to dinner with. Roseann knows the difference.
She has attended thousands of events since 1994 and she remembers the ones who made her think of a specific client. If you are here, you might be the woman her client is looking for.
WHO YOU’LL MEET
Imagine a first date where you feel like you've known each other forever.
Roseann's clients are surgeons, CEOs, attorneys, and entrepreneurs — high-quality men who have built extraordinary lives and are searching for one woman genuinely worthy of sharing their lives with.
They are not there to perform. They are not there to impress. They are there because Roseann told them she found someone and they trust her completely. They are ready in the way a man is ready when he has made a decision and intends to follow through.
Some of them have taken their first date to Cairo for the second one. One planned a Fiji honeymoon three months after meeting. This is what a Roseann introduction looks like from the inside.
WHO YOU ARE
This is the woman Roseann is looking for.
She has a life she loves.
Not a life she is waiting to begin once the right person arrives. A real life — work she cares about, people she loves, things that matter to her. She is not looking for someone to complete her. She is looking for someone worth including.
She walks into a room and something shifts. Not because she's seeking attention. Because she is so completely herself that people feel it without knowing why.
She is selective. Not because she is difficult — because she knows the difference between what she wants and what is merely available.
She is ready for something real. Not cautiously ready. Not provisionally ready. Ready in the way that means she has stopped making excuses for the wrong person and started trusting her own instincts about the right one.
She has loved before and it did not break her. It taught her. And she's ready to love again.
She is not looking for rescue. She is looking for an equal.
If this is you — and you will know if it is — Roseann would like to know more about you.
What Happens Next?
It begins with a conversation
You’ll have one conversation with Roseann. She learns who you are and what you are looking for. If you fit into the profile of our A-List women, then you’re in and you can go about your life.
Then, a connection
And when Roseann has a client she believes is genuinely right for you — not approximately right, not probably right, exactly right — she calls. She shares his details. She answers every question. She only moves forward if you are as excited as she is.
Then, it’s all about you
You will never hear from her speculatively. You will never be contacted by anyone other than Roseann personally. Your information is held with the same discretion she brought to a Top Secret Security Clearance in the United States Navy.
Roseann Higgins
Roseann has watched exceptional women — women like you — end up in relationships that were almost right. Or wait years for something that never came. Not because the right man didn’t exist. Because the right man was in a room she never walked into. So Roseann started walking into every room.
She has attended thousands of events since 1994 — galas, art openings, private dinners, charity events — looking specifically for the women her clients are meant to find.
She holds a Top Secret Security Clearance. She spent sixteen years in the United States Navy. She was Sailor of the Year. She served on the Inaugural Committee for President Bush.
She brings that same precision, that same discipline, that same absolute commitment to the outcome to every search she runs.
Over 180 marriages. Less than 4% have divorced.
She believes in long, happy marriages. She believes you deserve one. She has spent thirty years proving she can find the man who makes it possible.
The right man exists for you
I have been looking for him my entire career. When I find him —and I will — you will be the first person I call.
Good to Know
Is there a fee to join SPIES™ ?
No. Membership is complimentary for exceptional candidates. SPIES™ is retained exclusively by the gentleman client. We work for him, but if you are the right match, we succeed for you both.
Will my profile be visible online?
Never. We are a confidential executive search firm for romance. Your profile is housed in our secure, private internal vault and is viewed only by Roseann and her exclusive team of experts—never by the public, and never by other members.
What kind of men do you represent?
We represent high-net-worth, marriage-minded gentlemen who are too recognizable or too busy for public dating apps. They are vetted, highly successful, and seeking a partner of equal caliber.
How do you vet the gentlemen you represent?
Your safety is paramount. Just as we screen you for our clients, we rigorously vet every gentleman we represent. We verify their identity, background, and intent before any introduction is made. You will never be sent on a blind date with an unverified stranger.
What happens after I submit my profile?
Your profile will be reviewed by our team. Because we are a search firm—not a dating service—we will contact you only when your profile aligns with the specific requirements of a current client. We respect your time and will not bother you with mismatched inquiries.